Ce să mai faci în zilele libere?

Personal, o zi liberă reprezintă o groază de timp, pe care o pot utiliza realizând lucruri importante. Fie că este vorba despre odihnă activă sau pasivă, fie despre unele sarcini și proiecte personale.

Sunt obsedat de eficiență și productivitate. Adesea nu mă pot relaxa și regăsi atunci când mă tolănesc fără folos.

Fiecare zi din viața mea începe cu verificarea listelor de sarcini, pe care trebuie să le realizez. Iar ziua liberă este o oportunitate proeminentă de a mai tăia din sarcinile restante.

Dacă vă întrebați ce instrumente utilizez pentru managementul sarcinilor, atunci e simplu, sunt adeptul tehnologiilor și prefer ASANA. Un instrument care îți permite să creezi categorii și liste pentru toate sarcinile dorite, le poți reprograma, repeta sau chiar delega. Consider a fi inutilă utilizarea agendelor, pixurilor și a hârtiei. Probabil sunt pedant sau ecologist, încă n-am hotărât. Ceea ce îmi pare absurd, este să rescriu aceleași lucruri pe hârtie, fiindcă este evident că nu reușim să realizăm tot ce ne planificăm. Ori apar urgențe, ori sarcinile pot fi amânate din diferite considerente.

Mi se pare mai eficientă adaptarea la tehnologie, decât reticența către metodele vechi. Chiar dacă uneori aș accepta și un mixt.

Să presupunem că ne dorim să realizăm ceva doar pentru noi. Oare vom reuși să ne ocupăm de sarcini personale în timpul programului de lucru? Ori, o idee mai bună este să încercăm să lucrăm după program? Probabil ambele ar putea avea succes, depinde de situație. Însă, mai simplu este să încercăm în zilele libere să planificăm două sau trei ore pentru a realiza sarcini personale.

Dacă persistăm câte șase ore pe săptămână, timp de un an vom lucra treizeci și nouă de zile pentru a realiza proiecte personale.

O carieră de succes nu poate fi formată doar din munca propriu zisă. Timpul dedicat proiectelor personale în final aduce plus valoare carierei profesionale. Revistele de specialitate recomandă să ne ținem de hobbyuri și pasiuni. În orice moment când în cariera noastră apar momente dificile, ele ne pot salva și oferi o altă perspectivă. Nu mai trăim într-o economie industrială și este strict necesar să facem conexiuni, care ne pot oferi idei noi să progresăm.

Sunt absolut sigur că zilele libere pot combina fructuos odihna cu productivitatea. Pentru noi și cariera noastră acești pași mici sunt strict necesari.

Who is your dragon?

Despite all our big dreams and wishes, I think we never faced something so important or urgent to give us an impression of ”what are fundamental things” for us.

We run, run fast for money, power, respect, love, recognition, knowledge, appreciation, or any other thing you consider essential. You know why, in my opinion, things that society and our civilization impose us, aren’t the best we can get.

Once you face the chance to lose someone…

You can feel why all other things are so useless. ”Tools” are the perfect description of all things that we wanted, they can entertain us, but will never give us that feeling of acceptance and meaning.

What are those emotions and actions that you want to have in your life that will give you enough of everything you want?

Remember that tools have their role, only we can choose what will be significant in our life.

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How bad can it go?

I heard one interesting idea that if you take care of yourself and your responsibilities you start to have success, then you will add more, otherwise, if you start to fail then things will go even worst. In any moments of triumph or not, its wise to ask yourself what I did wrong or maybe what I did before that brought me here. Understanding that we can start changing the road we go. Human beings are overcomplicated systems that can be programmed or modified in the good or bad way. From late times we have incorporated chaos and order in our life. The tricky part is that we were born with the chaos side in us and it is pretty intense because we lived in a hazardous and chaotic environment, our ancestors passed thru hell to start making the order. So, watching everything that happens around us, we can observe that now we live a more significant order that it was even 20 years ago. For that keeping going many civilizations make an effort to keep this world in order. For you to have access to medicine, school, internet, food, job, house, everything you use daily.

Did you ask yourself what your role in that is?

Are you just a consumer or a contributor? If you are just a consumer than you go by the river and is nothing wrong in that, but on that path is much easier to start going bad. You overspend, over-consume, etc. If you assume the role of a contributor than you begin planning and try to find ways to improve your life and the environment you live if you do that more often than you start to be a better contributor and will begin to enhance. You need to start small, add your backpack, table, room, home in order, and scale it as much as you can. But, don’t go from big to small, its impossible, the most significant changes start when you go first with yourself if you can change yourself than you can change others.

If you still think how bad can it go? Look what happened in history when sick people were ruling the country, people with unsolved personal problems that scaled at the national level. You bring daily in this world your true nature, no matter how hard you try to cover it. It goes outside as sun comes each morning. Keep it going, its hard, but it deserves the effort for your inner future self and family.

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The bad and the good

Its the day of my bad habits. Always had the idea that the good and the bad live at the same time in me. I felt it, and I know when I was right and not. To destroy or to build, that could be the question to answer me as days passes. We saw what the destruction could do, and the history recorded all the evil leaders that were near to end this world. We are good and the bad at the same time, it’s us who decide what we will choose to act. If we determine the good, we don’t know how great this world can become.

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Unlimited motivation

By searching for motivation ultimately you will find the best source of it by going deep down to your roots of what you are doing and what consists your structure and being. It’s at the same time so simple and so complicated. Not related with a kind of overthought believe system or super-human capacities. Nearby, near each of us, at the distance of your eyes, if you will look, at first, you will not see, after some time you will understand that is all around you. Something that you ignore but you can feel with your body because it’s older than ”us” it’s older than many things. This its called soul, motivation, nirvana, God, tell it as you want, its something that overpass us and shouldn’t be searched outside, because it’s limited there, when you make an effort to look at you without any beliefs and thoughts then you find the unlimited motivation.

You get to the point when you understand that people like you created all the things in the world, and you, by yourself can be a creator and move things forward. Then you get the point that motivation isn’t a magic thing, it’s that energy that keeps you moving forward on achieving your goal.

Some will name it enthusiasm, perseverance, positive energy, I can be wrong here with categorizing this, but the initial idea is that motivation stays before any of those. I think what I’m trying to do at this stage of my life is to create a hierarchy of things and put everything as much possible in order. Once I generate the flow, I keep adding new activities to my hierarchy. I struggle because my fundament was somehow weak or not how I expected to be. I tried in many ways to find answers to my worries, but that brought me to the place where I understood that it’s me who can put the things in order and to decide how my future will be. Still, I have much work to do, but I think that I know what I need to do next.

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